To lovers out there… We men been trash for too long that being a trash is a normal behavior. That is why when ladies say we are trash we don't see it because to some of us it has been a normal life or relationship in our society. We have been raised to discipline women. To show our strength and power to them. We don’t see beating someone we date as an abuse , but we see it as a discipline. Its not discipline but what it does is it gives us more power and it install fear to them, so that we get authority and control over them. Real man don’t abuse women. Real man walks away when the women is ill-discipline and is not worth it.