I will overlook bad behavior if I know that people's intentions are good. I have this belief that people really can do good things and that people want to be good.
I am very benign-looking. I'm somewhat like a golden retriever: It's not hard to look at me. I'm perfectly fine. It's not like things jut out and make you nervous. But the lovely thing about being so pale and having such pasty features is that I can look like pretty much anything, which is nice.
You've gotta go for it, and go for it with gusto.
