When we each focus on being the dominant force in our own universe rather than invading other universes, we all win.
People get married for a wide array of reasons and have all sorts of expectations of how marriage will change the relationship. And while it's true that turning the person you're dating into a legal partner does affect certain things, those who expect marriage to be a cure-all for all your relationship woes are sorely mistaken.
In some cases, newlyweds want so badly for things to be perfect that they ignore warning signs, both in themselves and each other.
Women compete, compare, undermine, and undercut one another - at least, that is the prevailing notion of how we interact.
There's nothing like listening to the drone of QVC's always-bubbly pitchwomen, as they try to move loose-fitting tunics with 'just the right amount of sparkle,' to soothe you into a healing slumber.
Don't sacrifice alone time with your spouse just because the kids seem needy. A united front requires adult time alone, so put it in the calendar and make it a priority. A house cannot stand on a shaky foundation.
