We sometimes rejects God plans, because we have our own plans. Then later wonder why we suffer and why God has abandon us or allowing bad things to happen to us. Before you rejects God plans and follow your own. Remember God doesn't make mistakes we do.
My spirituality is the spirituality of love. You give love to the Universe and the Universe reflect back the refined love back to you. Because love is all-pervading, divine, and the ultimate Godliness.
If I only go as far as I can take myself, I’m not all that certain that I’ve gone much of anywhere at all. But once I dared to look outside of myself, I realized that God hands out unlimited passes to the anywhere of everywhere.