If the fire in your heart is strong enough, it will burn away any obstacles that come your way.
Similar to a butterfly, I've gone through a metamorphosis, been released from my dark cocoon, embraced my wings, and soared!
After you hear and listen. First must come desire. Second must come willingness. Third should come understanding. Fourth should come progression and with progression will come more understanding.
The victory over our inner self is a daily struggle. Be strong and do not give up.