You cannot lead a brave life without disappointing some people.
If someone ghosts you once they will continue ghosting you. They ghost for many reasons. To train you, to live different lives, to drive you crazy.
The easiest red flag to remember. Do not loan them money, do not gift them money, stop believing the victim story, do not give them access to your money.
When you judge others you do not define them, you define yourself.
Dear kids, the secret of life is to learn who the good people are, and stay away from the assholes.
Live life. Do the unexpected, who the hell cares! Just have fun.