One of the biggest favors that you can do for yourself is to accept your loved ones for who they are, and not be constantly disappointed because they are not who you think they should be.
You would not want to be responsible for someone else’s happiness, so please do not hold someone else responsible for yours!
Blaming is so much easier than taking responsibility, because if you take responsibility … then you might be to blame.
Unhappiness can be like a virus spreading from one person, to the next person, to the next one and so on. When someone is mean or rude to you, do not let their unhappiness infect your own life. If you are the unhappy one, please quarantine yourself so you do not infect others!
You cannot borrow half of who you are from someone else, yet people try to do it all of the time, they just call it a relationship!
When a person goes into a relationship emotionally needy, they are not going to have discernment in choosing people.
