Have faith in yourself to know what's right for you. Whatever answer you need, it's inside you somewhere.
I think it’s true that the older you get, and I am very old, the more you see that being in love and breaking up have a lot in common. Love is hard. Breaking up is hard. Love is dramatic. Breaking up is dramatic. Which makes me think that a lot of the questions you have about breaking up might be better thought of as questions about the nature of the love you have with this girl.
