If you really love someone, or even like them, you do it because of who they are. You wouldn't want to change them, that defeats the purpose & meaning. Because to change someone you love isnt loving them in their fullest but belittling the love they carry for themselves. Dont try to change them, nor have them conform to your idea of them. But love the them they are, otherwise, do you really love them? Or rather, do you merely love the idea of who you wish to make them.
