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First best is falling in love. Second best is being in love. Least best is falling out of love. But any of it is better than never having been in love.
— Maya Angelou

タグ: lovelessness, love, falling-in-love

Marriage is not a process for prolonging the life of love, sir. It merely mummifies its corpse.
— P.G. Wodehouse The Small Bachelor

タグ: sarcasm, matrimony, married-life, marriage, lovelessness, love, lack-of-feeling, humor, blandness

God judges men from the inside out; men judge men from the outside in. Perhaps to God, an extreme mental patient is doing quite well in going a month without murder, for he fought his chemical imbalance and succeeded; oppositely, perhaps the healthy, able and stable man who has never murdered in his life yet went a lifetime consciously, willingly never loving anyone but himself may then be subject to harsher judgment than the extreme mental patient. It might be so that God will stand for the weak and question the strong.
— Criss Jami Healology

タグ: wisdom, weakness, theology, temptation, strength, stability, soul, sin, sickness, selfishness, self-worship, self-righteous, sane, righteous, resistance, repentance, punishment, psychopath, psychology, psycho, pride, philosophy, pharisee, narcissism, murder, morality, mind, mercy, mentally-ill, mental-patient, lovelessness, love, liability, law, judgment, instability, insane, immorality, ill, hypocrisy, humility, heart, healthy, health, guilt, grace, good-and-evil, good, god, forgiveness, evil, ego, discernment, crime, crazy, confession, cognition, chemical-imbalance, brain, awareness, asylum, arrogance, apologetics

As individuals die every moment, how insensitive and fabricated a love it is to set aside a day from selfish routine in prideful, patriotic commemoration of tragedy. Just as God is provoked by those who tithe simply because they feel that they must tithe, I am provoked by those who commemorate simply because they feel that they must commemorate.
— Criss Jami Killosophy

タグ: vanity, universal, tragedy, tithe, society, selfishness, routine, pride, popular-culture, popular, pop-culture, pop, patriotism, patriotic, patriot, nationalism, memory, memories, memorial-day, memorial, lovelessness, love, insincere, insensitivity, individual, honest, holiday, god, falsehood, fabrication, death, day, culture, commemoration, commemorate, bandwagon

Your god, sir, is the World. In my eyes, you, too, if not an infidel, are an idolater. I conceive that you ignorantly worship: in all things you appear to me too superstitious. Sir, your god, your great Bel, your fish-tailed Dagon, rises before me as a demon. You, and such as you, have raised him to a throne, put on him a crown, given him a sceptre. Behold how hideously he governs! See him busied at the work he likes best -- making marriages. He binds the young to the old, the strong to the imbecile. He stretches out the arm of Mezentius and fetters the dead to the living. In his realm there is hatred -- secret hatred: there is disgust -- unspoken disgust: there is treachery -- family treachery: there is vice -- deep, deadly, domestic vice. In his dominions, children grow unloving between parents who have never loved: infants are nursed on deception from their very birth: they are reared in an atmosphere corrupt with lies ... All that surrounds him hastens to decay: all declines and degenerates under his sceptre. Your god is a masked Death.
— Charlotte Brontë Shirley