"misery-and-sadness"タグの名言

I love death because life hates me.
タグ: suicide-thoughts, suicide, sorrows-sad-darkness, sorrowful-times, sorrowful-quotes, sorrow-quotes, sorrow, sadness-quotes, sad-quotes, misery-and-sadness, misery, miserable-life, miserable, melancholy-suffering-happiness, melancholy, lifelessness, life-quotes, life-philosophy, life-changing, life-and-living, depression-quotes, depression, depressed-quotes, death-quotes, death-and-dying, death
What is it that makes you cry? It is only your attachments. What is it that you miss when it is lost? It is the object of your attachment. Ponder over this. Find out what it is that grips your very life, without which you feel miserable and destitute; that is the center of your attachment. Here is what you should do: make an effort to find out what things it would hurt you to lose. Then, before they are lost, open your hands little by little, relax your grip on them. This is the method for conquering attachment. There is bound to be pain, but you must bear it; this is your penance. It is not necessary to renounce anything. It is not that you should leave your wife and run away to the Himalayas. Remain there, where you are, but gradually stop depending on her. There is no need to cause any pain; your wife need not even know it. There is no need to tell her. Seek out the attachments. Try gradually to live without the things that you now think you cannot live without. Create such a state within yourself that if and when these things are lost, there is not the slightest tremor within you. Then you will have attained victory over these attachments. This can be possible. It has been possible. And if it has happened to even one, it can happen to all.
— Osho Bliss: Living beyond happiness and misery
タグ: unrequitted-love, relationship, pain, misery-and-sadness, happiness, divorce, breakup, bliss, betrayal-trauma, betrayal
What do you think all of us are here for? Certainly not to seek happiness. We are not here to enjoy. We are here to feel. Experiencing emotions is what human minds are made for. Emotions of every kind. A full gamut. A life spent on experiencing sentiments that lie at only one side of the spectrum is no life at all. We shouldn’t avoid grief. Instead, we should welcome despair in our lives with open arms. For it makes us who we are. It makes us complete.
タグ: philosophy, philosophical-musings, misery-and-sadness, misery, life-quotes, life-lessons, life, feelings-life, emotions