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From her thighs, she gives you life And how you treat she who gives you life Shows how much you value the life given to you by the Creator. And from seed to dust There is ONE soul above all others -- That you must always show patience, respect, and trust And this woman is your mother. And when your soul departs your body And your deeds are weighed against the feather There is only one soul who can save yours And this woman is your mother. And when the heart of the universe Asks her hair and mind, Whether you were gentle and kind to her Her heart will be forced to remain silent And her hair will speak freely as a separate entity, Very much like the seaweed in the sea -- It will reveal all that it has heard and seen. This woman whose heart has seen yours, First before anybody else in the world, And whose womb had opened the door For your eyes to experience light and more -- Is your very own MOTHER. So, no matter whether your mother has been cruel, Manipulative, abusive, mentally sick, or simply childish How you treat her is the ultimate test. If she misguides you, forgive her and show her the right way With simple wisdom, gentleness, and kindness. And always remember, That the queen in the Creator's kingdom, Who sits on the throne of all existence, Is exactly the same as in yours. And her name is, THE DIVINE MOTHER.
— Suzy Kassem Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem
タグ: women, womanhood, woman-rights, woman-power, woman, value, universe, treatment, treasure, thighs, suzy-kassem, soul, sisters, silent, seed, seaweed, royalty, queen, pregnancy, poetry, poem, parents, name, mothers-poem, mothers-love, mothers-and-daughters, mothers, mothering, motherhood, mother-poetry, mother-poem, mother-earth, mother, mommy, mom, mind, matriarch, loss-of-mother, life, kingdom, kindness, hearts, heart, hair, grandmother, goddess, gentle, fertility, feminism, female, feather, existence, eulogy-mother, eulogy, dust, divine-mother, divine, creation, children, childish, cherish, birth, beauty, abusive
So often survivors have had their experiences denied, trivialized, or distorted. Writing is an important avenue for healing because it gives you the opportunity to define your own reality. You can say: This did happen to me. It was that bad. It was the fault & responsibility of the adult. I was—and am—innocent.” The Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis
— Ellen Bass The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
タグ: victim, survivor, shame, sexual-abuse, responsibility, relationships, recovery, reality, lies, innocence, healing, guilt, emotional-abuse, courage, childhood-abuse, child-abuse, blame, abusive, abuse
My dad had limitations. That's what my good-hearted mom always told us. He had limitations, but he meant no harm. It was kind of her to say, but he did do harm.
タグ: scars, relationships, psychological-abuse, parents-and-children, parents, parenthood, mother, mental-abuse, loyalty, love-lost, limits, limitations, indoctrination, hurt, heartbroken, heartbreak, harm, father, family, false-beliefs, emotional-abuse, divorce, didn-t-mean-it, childhood-memories, childhood, broken-home, brainwashing, bad-parenting, abusive, abuse